being friends with her… September 20, 2007

i know that its really hard to say this but i really dont think i can ever be friends with her again… maybe in the far future we can be okay friends but we will never be as good of friends as we used to be. i gave he another chance last time she did this and im not doing it a second time. i just cant do that, she had the choice between our friendship and a new boyfriend and obvioiously our friendship wasnt as important as i thought it was. yeah i know that i cant controll the fact that they like each other but thats the first rule of girl code… never go for your friends exboyfriend, esspecially when she still loves him!!! i believe in giving another chance to those who deserve it but not multiple times… i have too much respect for myself and i dont want to be friends with someone who says shes my friend but turns around and does something that they know damn well is the wrong thing to do… when they know that its gonna cause alot of drama between us. its not like im telling all of our friends not to be her friend theyre making that decision on their own… i just told them that im not forgiving her and they should try and just forget the fact that me and her dont get along and move on.. just ignore it and ill work it out on my own… i know that im being kinda harsh buut if i forgive her no then she will think its okay to do this again to me or someone else… does anyone see my point or is it just stupid?