i have this feeling in the pit of my stomache that they are secretly going out and theyre just keeping it from the rest of the school for my sake… so i dont get mad at her or upset and even more depressed… if this is true then why are they doing it this way? why do they think that lying to the rest of us is the right thing to do? i honestly want to just go up to them when theyre laughing their asses off one day and be like are you two going out… and if they hessitate then i have my answer and i can say you know what… i know you really are and if your just keeping it from me because you think ill be mad then your wrong it just makes things way worse… then just walk away and be done with both of them. i can seriously say that if they are keeping it a secret so me and her can still be friends then its really not worth it cause me and her will not be friends for awhile if ever again, i cant be friends with someone who hurts me this much after saying that theyre my friend and they understand what im going through… obviously that was a load of bull shit cause as soon as we ended that conversation she went for my exboyfriend, after i just poured my heart out to heR and told her i still loved him and would be very upset if they went out… now they think its okay to keep it a secret! like i would never find out!!! sure ill be nice to her and stuff but we will never be close ever again!!! i just dont understand why its okay too lie to me and then when i find out from someone else they have to confess and they look like liers! when that happens im just gonna have to laugh it off and say i knew it… im gonna come out being the better person and thats all that matters 
i guess thi is one of lifes really hard lessons… but whatever! any advice… anyone?
xo Anna
Anna,
I can’t imagine how hard this is for you. Please dont be depressed! I know it is hard but try to step back from the entire situation and search for the lesson god was trying to teach you…everything happens for a reason and you need to find the good in this situation and find the lesson that will help you out later in life. It is unfair that you had to learn this lesson the hard way but it will pay off sometime down the road!
LOVE YOU SO MUCH,
Sarah
Girl if hes not tellin you about that then maybe he still secretly likes you and wants to try this girl out without making you too mad. But i think you should be the bigger person and still be friends with them cause i did that when one of my friends stole my bf and we are still best friends till this day.
xoxoWhitney